Clothes: Falsity or a Way of Expressing One’s Personality?

01310677020_express.jpgHow many of us want to gain respect? Admiration? For people to like us for what we are on the inside?

I’m sure all of you reading this article are cool, decent persons with moral values and courage when needed.

I ask the questions above almost every single day but, for starters, let me answer a question that I’ve been asked many times:

Are or should clothes be everything in life?

My answer is: definitely NO!

Why?

Because clothes are a means, not a purpose.

I know you probably don’t like people that wear very expensive clothes and drive expensive cars. Most of them, when you try to communicate with them, it’s like hitting a wall. It’s as if… they are just empty. It’s like they have this mask that they don’t want to take off. It’s as if there’s a wall between you and them that you can’t jump over in order to get to them… to what they’re really like inside.

Then WHY, why do they hide behind clothes?

Being good at analyzing this ever since I was a kid, I pondered many times about the reasons some people wear extravagant clothes to draw attention and to reject them when they attempt communication. I tried to

Mens Fashion Clothing – Making a Statement

21310677020_ebay084.jpgIn some ways, I have always been a little bit jealous of girls. I like mens fashion clothing, but it can be so hard to express yourself. With women’s clothing, there is such a great, broad variety of different bright things to express different moods. With mens clothing, however, everything is much more subdued. Two womens dresses can be as different as night and day, but mens suits almost always look about the same. With mens apparel, you can make a fashion statement, but you are always speaking in a quiet voice.

Nonetheless, this doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun with mens fashion clothes. Depending on what kind of statement you want to make, there is still quite a bit to do. Nowadays, with the popularity of hip-hop, mens fashion clothing is more bright and colorful than ever. Strong, bold, primary colors are where it’s at. Then again, outdoor clothing is also very popular. Mens fashion clothing takes many forms, and what might look good to one group of people won’t to another. If you really want to impress those hippie girls, wear some quiet earth tones, tan sandals, and cargo shorts. They will be fighting over you like you were tofu imitation breakfast sausage!

You have to be careful when you go to men’s fashion stores. For some reason, clothing has gotten a lot more boring lately. I blame the aggressive advertising campaigns by Old Navy and The Gap, but whatever the reason, a lot of mens fashion clothing is just boring old T-shirts dressed up with logos. The logos aren’t even interesting! If you are into this kind of mens fashion clothing, why not just buy packs of T-shirts cheap at the local JCPenney? You would save a good bit of money, and you would not look like an idiot spending money on generic looking brand-name clothing!

Fortunately, mens fashion clothing is much more interesting when it comes to formal wear. Mens formal wear never gets boring. Although there is not a lot of variety in suits, they continue to look good. It is good to know that, at least in some areas, classic ideas of design have not forever faded from the scene. Men’s fashion clothing for a night out on the town continues to look as spiffy as ever. Sometimes I dress up in a suit just because I like how it looks on me!

Trendy Plus Size Teenage Clothing For Girls To Express Their Individuality

11310677021_clothes037.jpgAs teenagers start to become more independent and move towards adulthood they are constantly making choices and decisions that sometimes have a huge impact on them later. Good decision making skills and sound judgement skills are essential and are used even when choosing clothing, these skills can help with self confidence and self esteem. Making poor choices and un thought out decisions “also useful,” will also help to improve their exceptance of responsibility for their own actions hence suffering consciences and learn very important social developmental skills along the way that help to find their place in our society.
Statistic have shown the average size of woman and men has increased considerably over the past 10yrs and so to has the size of our teenagers. The demand for trendy plus size teenage clothing has increased dramaticly and now we are starting to see positive changes as designers realise there is big money to be made in plus sizes and are finally expanding into the plus size clothing market and including teenage plus sizes. This will eventually give plus size teenagers a variety of designer clothing similar to the choices given to teenage who wear standard sizes up to a size eighteen.

The variety of trendy plus size teenage clothing is on the improve although still a long way from adequately catering for this niche market. I have come across a few shops including: Alight, Figuresque and Delia’s who all carry a variety of trendy plus size jeans, plus size dresses and plus size tops all exclusively designed for plus sizes to ensuring a perfect fit and Chic Star who offer limited stock in plus size teenagers clothing that has an individual appeal for teenagers. Their range of trendy plus size teenage clothing including, plus size gothic wear, plus size rockabilly, plus size corset pencil skirts, plus size corset tops and some vintage plus size clothing.

Teenagers often need to express who they are or would like to be through many different avenues usually in their choice of clothing, hair, body piercing, tattoos, etc. They really just want to fit into a certain group and much prefer the scruffy look. Teenagers will experiment and experience a variety of challenges as they eventually find their own identity. They each with their own ideas as to what looks tendy or cool and usually is a particular style of a peer or a famous person. As parents we may not always agree or approve of their choices but we should not be judgemental of their individual preferences in clothing whether it be punk, gothic, scruffy, indie, rock or townie but we need to understand their need to have different options available in their choice in clothing. We need to guide teenagers in the right direction, be good role models and provide lots of emotional support.